If you're into sugar dating, you know there are a lot of reasons why we choose this lifestyle. Whether it's because you're on the edge of commitment after a couple of broken hearts, or because money is tight and your relationship with your boss is more toxic than a neighborhood gossip, we all want to be pampered and appreciated, don't we?
Before you start surfing in this sweet world, you have to do one thing very clear: take out all the bad vibes that the past left you and send those "haters" who think they have the right to tell you how to live your life. First of all, congratulations! Give yourself a round of applause for being brave, for stepping out of that comfort zone that sometimes pulls you down, and for not accepting less than you deserve. Here we are evolving and leveling up, and that's what matters!
Meet a potential sugar daddy it's not the beef, it's how you charm her into staying with you that matters. We know the ideal sugar dady is charming, mysterious, dominant... but what if he's not in it for the long haul? We've all been there. At first it's pure glamour and fun, but then, after those six glasses of champagne and the blurry reflection in the mirror, doubts start to creep in, "What if he's not that interested in me?"
Relax. Here are six tips from experienced sugar babies to keep your sugar daddy hooked.
1. Looking good is not everything
Yes, looking good helps, but it's not enough. Going to the gym, perfecting your makeup, changing your closet, that's all fine, but if you don't work on your confidence and your aura, looks alone won't get you far. Sugar daddies are visual, they care about how you look, but what really hooks them is that confident and seductive vibe you bring inside. Forget about competing with others for who is prettier. Instead, invest your energy in being the best version of yourself. In the end, what counts is who you are, not what others think of you.
2. Master the art of not caring
When you are with your sugar daddy, live in the moment and enjoy yourself without worrying about whether he will call you the next day. The more detached you are, the more control you will have over the situation. Remember, what a sugar dady wants is a strong, confident sugar baby with no drama. If you come across as needy or jealous, you're going to lose that charm that makes you irresistible.
3. Don't put all your eggs in one basket.
Unless you've agreed to exclusivity, it's always a good idea to keep your options open. If you focus only on one sugar daddy, you could end up with nothing if it doesn't work out. Having several options not only makes you more confident, but it also makes you look more attractive. Men are competitive by nature, and a little jealousy doesn't hurt to keep them in their place.
4. Make him miss you
Don't always be available, keep a little mystery. Distancing yourself from time to time will make your sugar dady miss you and value you more. When you are with him again, he will feel more special, as if he has the chance to have you all to himself. That power you have over him will drive him crazy and keep him coming back for more.
5. Don't despair about the future
Don't worry about where the relationship is going, or torment yourself with questions like "what are we?" or "who is she?". What a sugardaddy really wants is an uncomplicated relationship where you both benefit and enjoy each other. If the terms are good, there's no reason to complicate your life.
6. Trust in your power
Always remember that you are in control. Be a sugar baby it's not just about beauty, it's about confidence, security and knowing how to play your cards right. So get out there, enjoy the process, and remember that no one else has what you have. That's what really makes you unique and powerful.
Now, enjoy the sweet life! And don't forget to let us know how it goes.
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