A sugar agreement must be cool and mutually beneficial involved.
When it comes to what makes a sugar relationship it all boils down to two things: one, a genuine connection and the concession that the sugar parent gives the sugar baby.
In this article, we are going to highlight how to talk about the issue of the assignment in your sugar relationship.
For those of you who are not so much into it, a assignment is the wool a sugar parent gives to their sugar baby for the time and effort they put into the relationship.
The assignment is normally in cash and usually comes with additional benefits like luxury goods, first class travel y elegant dinners. The sugar parent can also offer subsidies to cover the sugar baby's living expenses, such as income, tuition y transportation.
Now that it's clearer to you, what types of allocations are typically found in a sugar agreement? And which one would suit you best?
Types of assignments
Payment per meeting
In a meeting feeThe sugar parent gives the sugar baby a specific amount for each appointment. An appointment is usually a meal and time spent with the sugar parent.
Depending on how the relationship has progressed, the date can also include spending the night with your sweet partner.
But, beware, the sex is not mandatory and you should never feel pressured to do so.
If you're not comfortable with this, be honest with your sweet partner before the date and make sure you're on the same page.
At the end of the date, the sugar baby receives the amount previously agreed upon. The amount should be discussed before starting the sugar ratio.
Benefits:
This works if your sugar daddy is very busy and doesn't have a lot of time to see each other often. Instead of a monthly allowance, the sugar parent only sees you each time you see each other.
This arrangement is also good if you are just starting out in the sugar world and are still feeling your way around. It is also ideal if you are not in the same country as your sugar parent.
A meeting fee is more flexible for both parties and you can renegotiate when you feel more comfortable with the sugar lifestyle.
Quantity:
The amount varies, but averages around 500 USDAlthough it can go as far as 1,000 USD! It all depends on how you negotiate.
Of course, this amount is negotiable and we advise you to talk about it. before seeing each other in person.
Monthly allowance
As the name implies, a monthly allowance is the amount that the sugar parent gives to the sugar baby every month.
It is an amount of money that the sugar baby can use for whatever it needs. In return, the sugar baby will spend time with its sugar parent on a more regular basis.
They could see each other weekly or biweekly. They could spend the day together or even stay over. It all depends on the availability of the sugar parent and whether the sugar baby can adapt.
Benefits:
This arrangement is for those who are more experienced in the world of sugar and know what they want in a relationship of this type.
Definitely, establishing a monthly allowance is simpler and shows that there is trust and good communication in the relationship to allow for this type of arrangement.
Quantity
The average monthly allowance received by sugar babies in Libro de Azúcar is 2,500 USD. Again, this amount is negotiable. Ideally, the allowance should be proportional to the time, effort and attention that the sugar baby dedicates to the relationship.
Experiences and gifts
Some sugar parents prefer not to give cash, but instead offer experiences such as elegant dinners, luxury hotel stays and glamorous vacations.
They could also buy the latest gadgets, luxury items and anything the sugar baby wants as a gift. They could even cover the sugar baby's living expenses, such as rent, tuition, transportation, etc.
This type of subsidy is also ideal for sugar babies. (or as we call them, the business-minded sugar babies). who are looking for a way to climb the social ladder.
Benefits:
Generally, ehis is already part of the sugar relationship because sugar parents like to spoil their sugar babies.
However, you may still encounter some sugar parents or sugar babies who prefer this type of arrangement. It is up to both parties to decide if this is something they can accept.
Quantity:
Well, the amount depends on the type of experience. As for gifts, sugar babies have been known to receive brand name items, new phones and even fly to the sugar parent's location.
Depending on the needs of the sugar baby, sugar parents may also offer assistance with tuition and rent. If the sugar baby wants to learn a new skill or try a new hobby, the sugar parent can also support him or her monetarily.
How to set up your assignment
We have already talked about the types of assignments, but how do you establish them, especially if it is your first time in a sugar relationship?
Here are some factors to consider:
1) How often are they expected to meet?
The frequency of meetings can vary from twice a month to 2 or 3 times a week. It depends both on your availability and how much time you want to spend together.
If you don't see each other that often, may opt for a PPM, but if you see each other more frequently, you can agree on a monthly allowance.
2) The level of intimacy you desire
This is something you should talk about honestly with your sweet partner at the beginning of the relationship. Naturally, the more intimate the relationship, the more the assignment should reflect that as well.
Things can also change as the sugar relationship progresses: you may not want intimacy at first, but then change your mind. When that happens, the allocation should also be adjusted.
3) Amount of experience
When it comes to sugar babies, the more experience you have, the more you can ask for. That's the way the sugar roll works. As a sugar baby, if you feel you deserve more, don't be afraid to speak up and communicate with your sugar parents.
We hope this guide on allocations has clarified for you how to discuss this aspect of your sugar relationship.
Remember, it's important to clarify these details before committing to a sugar agreement. It can be awkward, but the best time to talk about this is on the first date.
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