First dates for Sugar Daddy Dummies

So, you've been kicking around the idea of becoming a sugar daddy and you've finally decided to go for it. As in any relationship, it all starts with a first date. You found a girl you like and you want to impress her with a date she will never forget: that's every man's dream! And let's face it, first dates, regardless of age, can be tricky. But don't worry, here are some tips to have a great first date with your sugar baby.

KNOW IT!

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Take some time to talk to your sugar baby by phone, chat or message before meeting in person. Don't go around making small talk about your ex-girlfriends or the other girls you've dated. Keep the mystery. If those issues come up on their own, fine, but don't bring them up unless she asks you to. Before meeting, make an effort to get to know her well through the app. SugarDaddyMexico before arranging the appointment; your job is to create good vibes and get basic information to plan it. This way you can learn a little more about their tastes and be ready with conversation topics in case there are any awkward moments of silence.

PREVIOUS PLAN

If you discovered that she loves being outdoors, don't take her to see a Russian ballet. The ballet may be cool, but it's not the point. It's your first date! Sure, you're a sugar daddy, but if she's not having a good time, she won't stay with you and you can't blame her. If she mentioned or wrote in her profile what she likes, organize the date around those likes. If she's into outdoor activities, pack a picnic and take her to the beach or a festival. How about Cirque du Soleil? Since it's a first date, some girls are a little nervous about going to out-of-the-way places, and you can't blame them, they don't know you well. Even if you think that taking her to your home for a private dinner is a good idea, opt for a public place to make her feel more at ease. Also, if the conversation gets tense, it's much easier to endure the silence when there's something to distract you, rather than just sitting on the couch staring at your glass of wine; that's uncomfortable.

Let the night flow

The first date is about getting to know each other, right? Well, that's what you do. Don't spend it drooling over it as if it were a piece of meat. Relax, stay calm and let the night flow by itself. If you have a fixed target, you could ruin the night. Don't be that guy. Also, another important thing: if you want the date to go well, avoid talking about religion or politics on the first date. You can bring up these topics if they come up naturally, but it's best not to force them. If it is crucial for you to know their political views, ask them, but do so in a relaxed, non-pressured manner, and just listen.

Be direct and sincere

I like clear people

Look, at the end of the date, if you connected more with the steak than with her, say so. In sugar relationships, sincerity and honesty are key, which is why so many people like them. Did you have a good time? Would you like to do it again? Don't waste your time or hers. You became a sugar daddy because you didn't want to play games, so don't start now. Be honest and everyone will be happy.

First dates can be tiring for everyone. But if you listen, use a little creativity and relax, your appointment will be a success.

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