"Oh, you're a sugar daddy? Well, sugar dates must be a piece of cake for you."
Of course, if you have the big bucks, that should be enough to be a sugar daddy, right?
Well, not so much! Being a sugar daddy isn't just about letting go of the wool. Just like any relationship, sugar dating needs direction and sometimes we can screw up.
Here are some mistakes you may be making without realizing it and how to avoid costly mistakes:
Mistakes you could be making and how to avoid them
Taking your sugar baby for granted
The sugar babies are not only looking for you to give them money for everything. Many also expect you to give them useful advice and some guidance in life. In return, they offer you their company and affection.
Don't expect your sugar baby to put up with you if you don't hold up your end of the bargain. You should ask her out, buy her gifts and generally behave like a good boyfriend. If they ask you for advice about their goals, you should be willing to lend a hand.
Solution: If you keep taking it for granted and don't deliver, you run the risk of losing your sugar baby, no matter how much money you have.
Taking advantage of your sugar baby
Your sugar baby is not your maid, your secretary or your babysitter.a. You should not expect him to do anything beyond being your companion or partner, unless this has been discussed and agreed upon beforehand.
Some sugardaddys have more than one sugar baby and often replace the "old models" with the "latest fashions"..
Solution: Mutual respect should be the basis of every sugar relationship. Treating your sugar baby like a floor rag or an emotional punching bag is not respectful at all!
Expecting your sugar baby to meet your expectations
Expecting your sugar baby to fit your ideal partner, wife or lover is a big mistake. If you demand that she dress, talk or act a certain way, you are saying that you don't care who she really is.
That can be very degrading and, honestly, no one would put up with that for long.
Solution: If you don't like something about your sugar baby's character, talk to her fairly and calmly, or maybe... end the relationship and find someone who better fits your expectations. But don't put her in the position of having to meet your demands.
Pretending to be something you are not
Don't pretend to be something you are not. Don't try to look like an oil tycoon if you can barely pay the rent. And if you prefer a quiet night at home instead of partying, don't try to look like an adrenaline junkie.
A sugar daddy might try to use these tactics to appear richer or younger, but it will probably only backfire when the truth comes out.
Solution: Be yourself and be comfortable with it. If a sugar baby doesn't accept that, she's probably not the one for you.
Having an unrealistic image of the relationship
Usugar relationship is based on you meeting your sugar baby's needs, whether it's financially, with advice or with your life experience. In return, you will get their company.
But you can't expect her to get emotionally involved with you like a real couple would.
Solution: If the feeling is mutual and she falls in love with you, great. But waiting for her to fall in love is a recipe for disappointment.
Letting your emotions cloud your judgment
Never allow your emotions to interfere with your common sense. Remember that the relationship is based on an agreement between two adults.
Solution: If you start to have expectations about how she should reciprocate or thoughts of settling down with her, it's time to rethink the relationship.
Not knowing when to retire
Finally, you must know when the relationship has come to an end and let it go.
Some sugar agreements have an expiration date; even the good stuff has to come to an end at some point.
Solution: Don't force yourself to stay in a relationship that is no longer working. If you are no longer happy, it will be harder to get out of it later.
We hope these tips will help you, sugar daddy, navigate the world of sugar more clearly.
If you have any additional tips, share them in the comments - I'm sure other sugar daddies will appreciate it!
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