Back in 1992, Gary Chapman came out with a book that changed the way we understand love and relationships. It is called "The five languages of love".and possibly helped save more than one relationship.
If you haven't yet taken the test to find out what your love language is, you should do it now! Once you know what your language is, it will be much easier to manage your dating and relationships. Trust us, we speak from experience. 🙃
At the end of the day, relationships are there to meet specific needs, not to ignore them. The important thing is to feel loved and cared for, and, of course, to add happiness to your life. ✨
Let's get down to business and discover the 5 love languages Chapman identified:
5 Types of Love Languages
In his book, Chapman describes five main love languages: words of affirmation, quality time, physical contact, acts of service and receiving gifts.
If you still don't see the difference between them, here we explain in summary what each one means and how you can make your partner feel loved:
Words of Affirmation
If your partner's love language is words of affirmation, then be prepared to say "I love you" more than 100 times a day. Seriously, it's no joke. To the people who speak this language of love love to hear how much you love them, to receive compliments, affectionate words and all kinds of nice phrases..
In short, it is about express your love through words, whether in text messages or face-to-face conversations. If this is your partner's language, be sure to tell him/her how much you appreciate what he/she does for you.
Quality Time
Quality time is for those who prefer that you give them your undivided attention when you are together. It's not enough to be in the same place; they want you to put the phone down and focus on them.. If you are glued to your cell phone or surfing social networks, That's no good!
Propose a regular appointment every Friday night. (put those phones down, please!) Or plan a weekend getaway to be alone with your partner. 💑 In every conversation, maintain eye contact and devote full time to your partner.
Physical Contact
When we talk about physical contact, many people think of sex, but it goes much deeper than that. This love language includes hand-holding, hugging, massages and caresses - kisses and hugs are their bread and butter! 💏
Without constant physical contact, your partner may feel lonely and unloved. Of course, sex is important, but even unexpected kisses on the cheek count. 💋 Before your partner leaves the house, kiss her. During a movie, get close and play with your fingers.
Acts of Service
This love language is based on doing things that ease your partner's burdens. You don't need to do big gestures; small actions like washing the dishes, helping with the cleaning of the car or cooking for them count for a lot.
Show that you are willing to do tasks that stress them or to collaborate in daily responsibilities will make them feel loved.
Receiving Gifts
Although it is the least common love language, receiving gifts is a way to show affection. It's not about how many zeros the price tag is, it's about the thoughtfulness of giving something special.
Surprise your partner with a handmade gift or something they've been longing for. And don't forget gifts on special occasions like anniversaries or birthdays. There is no worse mistake than forgetting these details!
It is Important to Know the Languages of Love
Now that you know the 5 love languages, why is it so crucial to know which one is yours and your partner's?
Have you ever felt unloved by your partner? Conflict often leads to the phrase, "I feel like you don't understand me!"
Knowing the languages of love can keep your relationship from feeling misunderstood. Here's why:
Communication Becomes Easier
Sometimes when you try to explain that you would like more compliments or help with household chores, your partner doesn't understand why. Knowing what your partner expects in terms of feeling loved makes communication much easier.
By knowing these languages, you will both be able to meet each other's expectations without feeling forced. You'll find that this is what really makes you feel loved! 🥰
You will feel more appreciated and valued.
When your partner surprises you with gifts and you give compliments, you are both speaking the same love language. We tend to react as we expect to be treated. If you understand your partner's love language, there will be no misunderstandings and you will both feel appreciated.
It will be easier to make them feel loved without asking for it.
Often, you wish your partner would make the first step or go the extra mile to praise or help you. If you both understand each other's love language, you will know what to do to make the other feel loved, and you will do it automatically.
What's Next?
Always remember that in a relationship it takes two to tango.
If your partner is unwilling to learn your love language or does not take action to make you feel loved, qou may need to reconsider the relationship, and in some cases, even think about ending it. 😕
If your partner doesn't understand (or won't understand) your love language, you might consider an honest and beneficial relationship with someone who is willing to meet your needs.
Why? From Sugar Daddy Mexico We believe that in an authentic relationship, you both have to agree with each other's needs and understand each other's love languages in order for it to work.
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